Last night I spent with my brother at the hospital. He attempted suicide. He is OK physically, but still such trouble and pain. Please keep him in your best thoughts, wishes and prayers. I am ok- about to take a walk and in touch with lots of good support. I am not sure how much I'll post in the next few days, but will check in when I can
Sandy...I'm so sorry to hear about your brother's suicide attempt. I'm so glad to hear that you are being conscious of taking care of yourself while also being concerned for his health and emotional wellbeing.
Hugs and prayers for your family. Sheri
Posts: 7356 | Location: Rehoboth Beach, DE | Registered: March 12, 2004
Sandy, when I was diagnosed and had my first bout of treatment, a friend purchased this workbook for me.
I found it easy, in the sense that it was uncomplicated, but also very helpful.
I'll also mention that the "gifts" that remain foremost in my mind from that time were the cards that I received in the mail--even from my roommate and people who only lived a block or two away. Something about the written word and knowing that people had taken time to think of me was so touching and so important to me.
So if you think of it, I'd highly recommend a little card, sent through the mail. It's amazing, when you feel so terrible, what the smallest thoughtful gesture can mean
You & yours remain in my thoughts.
D
Challenge Goals: *10 minutes of unplanned exercise five times a week *Gym time twice a week *Socialize at least once every two weeks.
Thanks again for the overwhelming support. I am much better today and have the day to take care of some job search stuff. I took a great walk this AM. My brother talked with dh (he is in the mental health field) and dh shared about resources and stuff that might support him. In the end, though, my brother makes all the choices. I so much hope and pray for his happiness.
I am sending good thoughts to you and yours. I am very sorry to hear this. I have been in his shoes, and while this might be the cure all for everyone, I needed lots of love, kindness, and ROUTINE to get me back on track. Having a set routine (along with love from many great people) kept my mind from wandering to the bad places.
I hope to hear good news about your brother, soon.
Sandy I just logged on and read your post, there is nothing more I can say that everyone else hasn't stated, I am very sorry to hear about your brother, and take care of yourself first cause he will need your strentgh to help him thru this.
Ny prayers are with both of you
The More I Learn, The Less I Understand
Posts: 167 | Location: Coconut Creek, Fl. | Registered: March 12, 2004
Thanks, everyone for the kind support. I am doing my best to be support and kind and to maintian my life too. There is help available for my brother, but I do not know if he'll accept it- this is way painful for him- past years of horrible stuff to walk through in order to get some relief.
I bought myself some stunning yarn to make 2 small scarves as gifts- something positve and beatiful.
My heart goes out to your brother, you are right he is in a lot of pain, and is very lucky to have a sister who will stand by him.. So many of my clients have family members who desert them at a time like this. Stay well for him, and give him a prayerful kiss for me.
It's never too late to get it right.
Posts: 3473 | Location: Central USA | Registered: March 11, 2004
Your brother is very lucky to have someone as caring as you in his life, and I hope you're able to take a little time to reflect on the goodness and hope your love is bound to bring to him right now.
I'll keep your family in my thoughts, Sandy.
D
Challenge Goals: *10 minutes of unplanned exercise five times a week *Gym time twice a week *Socialize at least once every two weeks.
Sandy I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. I'm so glad that he wasn't successful and hopefully he will get the help he needs to get better physicially and emotionally. I will certainly be keeping you all in my prayers. Hugs and love, Brie
Out of our beliefs are born deeds; out of our deeds we form habits; out of our habits grows our character; and on our character we build our destiny.
I am so sad to hear this. I have also been there w/my depression and my suicidal thoughts. I am glad to hear that he is fine physically. Now you just have to work on why he got there and how to help him mentally and emotionally, but I am sure you are already working on that. If you need any support while you go through this I am here to offer any assistance I can. Like I said I have also been there.
