Before Baby Arrives, Give Birth to a Good Eating/Exercise Plan

Dear Kathleen,
 
I'm 9 months pregnant and was overweight to begin with. I know that it isn't about losing weight during pregnancy, but I feel really bad about my weight. My doctor warned me against gaining too much weight, but that's easier said than done.

I care for my sister's child during the day while she works. With my little one on the way, I'm worried about having enough energy to cook healthy food. I have got to get this weight off, but I am tired most of the time. Help!

April



Dear April,

You are right not to worry about losing weight at this time. However, it's key that before the baby arrives, you set things into place that will help you work towards your ideal health and weight even when you're at your most tired.

Getting a handle on this now will help you set an example for your child later. According to a Stanford University study that followed 150 children for a nine-year period, children with at least one overweight parent have a 48 percent chance of being overweight themselves. The research showed that the highly emotional children in the group were "more likely to be given food by their parents to calm them and control their behavior, and as a result, they may be being overfed."

Go over your goals with your doctor and find out what your specific calorie and nutritional requirements are during this time.

If, after speaking with your doctor, you want more information, schedule an appointment with a nutritionist.

If you're on a tight budget, call a nutritionist, explain your situation and ask what books would be helpful for you to read.

Before the baby arrives, spend every moment you can setting yourself up to be able to cook in your sleep, which you won't be getting much of at first. Because the days and weeks after the baby comes home are among the most challenging, proper nutrition is an edge your body needs.

Here are seven things you can do now that will pay off later:

  1. Fat proof your kitchen. Simply put: If it helps you gain weight, it goes; if it will encourage good health, it stays. Evaluate your pantry, fridge and freezer for items that do you in—then give them the boot. Challenge yourself to replace junk with better options if you're not ready to give something up completely.

  2. Clean up your breakfast menu. It's the most important meal of the day. It needs to be nutritionally sound and substantial enough to get you through hectic mornings. Sugary cereals and breakfast bars aren't any more convenient than a hearty bowl of oatmeal, cream of wheat or whole-grain cereal topped with luscious seasonal fruit.

  3. Stockpile recipes. If you've got a recipe, you've got a game plan. Find five recipes and you've got a week's worth of meals and the grocery list, if you don't mind leftovers. Look for recipes that you can make and freeze so you don't have to cook every night—soups, casseroles, stews, veggie sides, etc. Look for 20-minute meals, one-dish dinners and anything that says quick and easy. Look for recipes with short ingredient lists and short instruction lists. Make a list of nutritious foods you're not eating enough of and look up recipes that include those key ingredients.

  4. Stay in planning and production mode. Review tomorrow's dinner menu before bed each night. This programs you to follow through and provides you with enough time to deal with last-minute setbacks.

  5. Prep dinner before lunch. Get a jump start on dinner any way you can, any time you can. Blanch the beans after supper the night before, set out your tools, gather the spices, chop the onions, make the sauce, microwave the veggies, crack the eggs. Anything you do ahead will buy you time down the road.

  6. Stock up on freezer meals. Every time you cook, make a double batch of something. Freezer meals are my saving grace and have kept me out of fast food restaurants for years.

  7. Make an exercise game plan. Look for home solutions. There are plenty of exercise DVDs to choose from covering a wide range of exercise categories: Pilates, yoga, stretching, strength training, dance, spot training and aerobics. Look for home exercise tools and toys that appeal to you: jump ropes, hula hoops, balance balls, exercise bands, hand weights, etc.

The more thought, effort and planning you put into this now, the greater your chances of achieving your goals in a safe, healthy and timely way.
Best wishes for a healthy delivery, April!


kd@chefkathleen.com

 

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