Bored, Lazy and Out of Shape? Push Yourself to the Next Level

Dear Kathleen,
 
I know you have kept your weight off for many years. How do you stay motivated to exercise and eat right? I get bored, frustrated and lazy.

Tasha



Dear Tasha,

I went cycling this weekend with an elite group of riders. I fell in the first minute and got dropped after 5.

Thank heavens, it was because my bike suffered easy-to-fix damage in the fall and NOT because I had no energy, no power in my legs or was the worst, most out-of-shape rider on the whole planet.

When I finally caught up with the group, the team mechanic diagnosed my slowdown, attributed it to mechanical failure, unlocked my back wheel, adjusted my brakes and off we went.

Because the group's fitness level exceeded my own, I pushed myself mentally and physically to levels of riding I hadn't yet achieved this season.

At the end of the ride, they invited me to join them again. I was so tired, I wasn't sure I could get my bike stuffed into my car, let alone find the energy to push the gas pedal all the way home. My mind raced to think of ways to politely decline.

Thankfully, my inner goddess of fitness silenced the cry-baby-cop-out and immediately began to think of ways I could prepare to ride with them again. Focusing on elements I can control—eating, hydrating, rest, bike maintenance and attitude—will help me gain the confidence I need to work to my personal best on the bike and in life.

Prepare to win and you can.

I see why Tour de France winner Lance Armstrong's training diet doesn't include ice-cream cones and cheeseburgers.

I felt every single culinary indiscretion when I was on the road digging deep for the energy I needed to keep up with the group and climb yet another hill.

My cycling coach friend told me later that I need to eat carbs. He didn't mean the chips and Cheetos kind, either. A perfect in-training supper: 4-5 ounces of grilled chicken or fish such as salmon or tuna with a black bean, born, tomato and avocado salsa.

To prepare the salsa: In a large, nonreactive bowl, combine 2 large, cored and diced tomatoes with 1 (15 ounce) can of drained and rinsed black beans; 1 cup of fresh corn kernels (about 2 ears' worth); 1 peeled, pitted and diced avocado; 1 tablespoon of grated or minced jalapeño; 2 tablespoons lime juice; 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar and 1/2 cup chopped cilantro. Toss to combine. Taste and adjust seasonings with course salt. Serve immediately. Serves 4.

No matter how you work out or what your workout consists of, figure out a way to do it with an individual or group of people who are at a slightly higher skill level than you. If you work out at home, pursue working out with a partner once a week. Invite someone to come over and work out with you or schedule a weekly power walk with a fit friend.

Consider signing up for a class. If that seems intimidating, audit a class so you can gain a comfort level.

Another option is to follow some of the athletes through their Olympic experiences. Reading about their training trials, tribulations and triumphs can be extremely motivating.

The goal is to continually find ways to push yourself out of your comfort zone and take yourself to the next level because no matter how far you get, there's always a higher level of mental and physical fitness we can achieve.

Ready, get set, go!


kd@chefkathleen.com

 

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